[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.abakus-cz.cz\/byt-detem-prikladem\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.abakus-cz.cz\/byt-detem-prikladem\/","headline":"B\u00fdt d\u011btem p\u0159\u00edkladem?","name":"B\u00fdt d\u011btem p\u0159\u00edkladem?","description":"V\u011bt\u0161ina psycholog\u016f se shoduje v tom, \u017ee nejlep\u0161\u00ed v\u00fdchova d\u00edt\u011bte je v\u00fdchova p\u0159\u00edkladem. U n\u011bkter\u00fdch situac\u00ed je to celkem z\u0159ejm\u00e9 a samoz\u0159ejm\u00e9. Nap\u0159\u00edklad pokud chci,…","datePublished":"2023-04-29","dateModified":"2023-04-29","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.abakus-cz.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.abakus-cz.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/614460c3109f6ef46730ae87c5e2be623f574940fabcec1214dc0d8d5af688cf?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/614460c3109f6ef46730ae87c5e2be623f574940fabcec1214dc0d8d5af688cf?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"abakus-cz.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"url":"https:\/\/www.abakus-cz.cz\/byt-detem-prikladem\/","wordCount":475,"articleBody":"V\u011bt\u0161ina psycholog\u016f se shoduje v tom, \u017ee nejlep\u0161\u00ed v\u00fdchova d\u00edt\u011bte je v\u00fdchova p\u0159\u00edkladem. U n\u011bkter\u00fdch situac\u00ed je to celkem z\u0159ejm\u00e9 a samoz\u0159ejm\u00e9. Nap\u0159\u00edklad pokud chci, aby si d\u011bti jednoho dne osvojily pracovn\u00ed n\u00e1vyky, ur\u010dit\u011b nemohu \u017e\u00edt dlouhodob\u011b a c\u00edlen\u011b ze soci\u00e1ln\u00edch d\u00e1vek.Pokud chci, aby m\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b bylo slu\u0161n\u00fdm \u010dlov\u011bkem, kter\u00fd se chov\u00e1 laskav\u011b k druh\u00fdm lidem, nemohu se s\u00e1m chovat jako nevychovanec. Pokud chcete, aby se d\u00edt\u011b dob\u0159e u\u010dilo a m\u011blo \u00factu ke vzd\u011bl\u00e1n\u00ed, nesm\u00edte rezignovat na celo\u017eivotn\u00ed vzd\u011bl\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. Pokud chcete, aby d\u00edt\u011b m\u011blo kladn\u00fd vztah ke sportu, sotva ho k tomu p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010d\u00edte t\u00edm, \u017ee se budete ve voln\u00e9m \u010dase v\u011bnovat p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm sezen\u00ed u televize.Ve v\u00fd\u010dtu je pak mo\u017en\u00e9 pokra\u010dovat do nekone\u010dna. Jenom\u017ee term\u00edn vychov\u00e1vat p\u0159\u00edkladem jakoby p\u0159edpokl\u00e1dal, \u017ee rodi\u010de jsou v podstat\u011b dokonal\u00ed. Ale to nejsou. I rodi\u010de maj\u00ed sv\u00e9 v\u00fdrazn\u00e9 limity. Co s t\u00edm?\u00a0\tKdy\u017e je obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e9 st\u00e1t se p\u0159\u00edklademNap\u0159\u00edklad co kdy\u017e nen\u00ed po\u0159\u00e1dkumilovnost Va\u0161\u00ed silnou str\u00e1nkou, ale je pochopiteln\u00e9, \u017ee o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1te od sv\u00fdch potomk\u016f, \u017ee budou m\u00edt ve sv\u00fdch v\u011bcech po\u0159\u00e1dek? Co kdy\u017e jste sp\u00ed\u0161e prakticky zam\u011b\u0159en\u00ed, ale neopl\u00fdv\u00e1te pr\u00e1v\u011b pronikav\u00fdm intelektem, nicm\u00e9n\u011b od d\u011bt\u00ed o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1te slu\u0161n\u00e9 v\u00fdsledky ve \u0161kole? Co kdy\u017e \u010dek\u00e1te od sv\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed vyrovnan\u00e9 emo\u010dn\u00ed reakce, ale sami jste m\u00edrn\u011b \u0159e\u010deno p\u011bkn\u00fd cholerik? Proto\u017ee nikdo nen\u00ed dokonal\u00fd a i rodi\u010de maj\u00ed sv\u00e9 deficity.\u00a0 V tomto ohledu pak je t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 vychov\u00e1vat p\u0159\u00edkladem. Co tedy s t\u00edm?Mnoz\u00ed rodi\u010de situaci \u0159e\u0161\u00ed situaci tak, \u017ee vol\u00ed direktivn\u00ed metody. Tedy metoda k\u0159iku a trestu. To ov\u0161em logicky nen\u00ed optim\u00e1ln\u00ed \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed. D\u00edt\u011b to jednak demotivuje a z\u00e1rove\u0148 dezorientuje. Proto\u017ee, kdy\u017e d\u00edt\u011b vid\u00ed, \u017ee je trest\u00e1no za n\u011bco, co je vlastn\u00ed rodi\u010d\u016fm, nev\u00ed, co si o tom vlastn\u011b myslet.Rodi\u010de samoz\u0159ejm\u011b maj\u00ed pr\u00e1vo na to d\u011blat chyby a ne \u00fapln\u011b v\u017edy dok\u00e1\u017eou b\u00fdt vzorem. Ale asi by m\u011bli zvolit strategii sebereflexe. \u201eAno, i j\u00e1 m\u00e1m s t\u00edmto (t\u0159eba \u00faklidem) probl\u00e9m a pr\u00e1v\u011b proto chci, abys v tomto ohledu byl nebo byla lep\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e j\u00e1.\u201c P\u0159\u00edkladem v tomto ohledu m\u016f\u017eete b\u00fdt v tom, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011bti uk\u00e1\u017eete, \u017ee se pokou\u0161\u00edte zlep\u0161ovat v tom, co V\u00e1m nen\u00ed \u00fapln\u011b vlastn\u00ed.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         4.2\/5 - (9 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"B\u00fdt d\u011btem p\u0159\u00edkladem?","item":"https:\/\/www.abakus-cz.cz\/byt-detem-prikladem\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]